Couples Therapy
Why do I feel this way?
It’s Friday and everyone around you is overjoyed that the weekend is finally here.
You can’t share their excitement; instead you are full of dread. You know that the weekend will be filled with disagreements, fights and disappointments.
You quickly try to fill your weekend with errands that take you away from home and your spouse. All the while you’re feeling guilty for looking forward to Monday – because then you don’t have to spend so much time with your spouse.
How did you get here…
Months of feeling unheard
No longer compromising
Questioning if staying married is the right thing
Same arguments, different day and time
Unsupported – unappreciated?
Lost trust – possible affair
Can you ever have peace and enjoyment again in your marriage?
The answer is YES!
There is a place past all the anger and resentment. Beyond the blaming and meaningless apologies. A place where you feel supported and appreciated. Where you feel comfortable voicing your concerns without wondering if your feelings will be held against you.
The path is a simple path, but not an easy path. If you want to do the work, there is a peace waiting for you. Where you can rediscover all the reasons you fell in love in the first place.
How can I help…
My main focus is helping couples work through crisis and getting to the bottom of the unmet needs that are at the root cause of the fractured relationship.
I guide you to work at communicating your needs and listening to your partner to understand his/her needs – rather than listening to respond and defend.
The process is about you. I will guide you through difficult conversations, so that you both feel heard and understood.
You can count on me to always give you honest feedback and call you out when I see something is not serving you.
Ready to make positive changes…
Are you tired of the resentful blaming and apologies with no resolution? Ready to rediscover the person you fell in love with and find you again?
Call (631) 848-9961 today and let’s start the journey!